In recent years, there has been a noticeable shift in the way Nigerian women dress, moving away from the traditional norms of modesty. What was once considered a compliment, to “dress to kill,” now carries a negative connotation, as it is associated with indecent dressing. This trend is not limited to Nigeria but is prevalent globally.
Viral videos showcasing women working naked in corporate organizations and individuals cycling naked on the streets of London have caused controversy and sparked discussions. While some condemn these actions, others applaud them for their boldness.
However, there are individuals who strongly oppose such behavior. Raymond Onyenezi expressed concern over the decline of morality in society and the potential dangers of inviting molestation through provocative dressing. James Chibuzo described the appearance of these naked ladies as disgusting and doubted their success in seducing men.
Investigations reveal that indecent dressing is more common among women, with many opting for super-short, skin-tight, and curve-hugging outfits. This trend has infiltrated various aspects of society, including places of worship, which were once revered. Some churches have even restricted certain women from sitting in the first rows due to the distractions caused by their fashion choices.
Weddings have also become a platform for brides to showcase their breasts, with bridesmaids following suit. This has led to concerns about the erosion of values and the loss of respect for womanhood. Pastor Chidi Adum drew attention to the warning in Proverbs 7:10 against adopting the attire of a harlot.
Mrs. Chinyere Anokwuru, President and Founder of SelfWorth Organisation for Women Development, expressed dismay at the declining virtues associated with womanhood. She highlighted specific dresses such as tank tops, bum shorts, tube tops, micro minis, and low-waist jeans as popular fashion choices that contribute to the problem.
On the other hand, sagging is a clothing trend predominantly observed among men but also adopted by some women. It involves wearing trousers or shorts low on the buttocks, revealing underpants. This fashion craze has become a competition among young people, particularly in higher institutions.
Mrs. Anokwuru attributed the rise of indecent dressing to the neglect of parental responsibilities and mothers failing to instill values in their children. She emphasized that attracting attention through provocative dressing is counterproductive and may lead to attracting the wrong kind of individuals.
Dr. Leonard Okonkwo, a Clinical Psychologist, provided insights into the dynamics of fashion and cultural influences. He noted that fashion is constantly evolving, often inspired by foreign cultures idolized through media exposure. He cautioned against making hasty judgments about changing fashion trends as what is condemned today might be accepted tomorrow. Dr. Okonkwo acknowledged that attracting the opposite sex is a motive behind seductive dressing but warned of the potential risks, such as an increased likelihood of rape.
While opinions differ on what constitutes indecent dressing and its consequences, it is evident that there is a shift in societal norms and the perception of fashion choices. The debate continues as individuals grapple with the balance between self-expression, cultural influences, and societal standards.
