In a video message, popular clergyman Emmanuel Okose has asserted that a woman who truly loves a man will naturally want to exert a certain level of control over him, akin to a mother’s nurturing instincts. He shared this perspective as advice to men in a relationship.
According to Okose, a woman’s desire to control stems from genuine love and concern for the well-being of her partner. He emphasized that a woman who loves a man would strive to guide him and provide valuable advice, always aiming for his success and well-being.
Using the analogy of a mother hen caring for her chicks, Okose illustrated the idea that a woman, much like a mother, is inherently protective and considerate of her loved ones.
In his view, a man in a relationship is akin to a woman’s first child, and her controlling tendencies are rooted in a nurturing and caring mindset.
His words …
“If a woman genuinely loves you, she will control you. One of the biggest foolishness that a lot of men do is that they ignore the advice of a woman that loves them. When a woman loves you, she will never advice you to fail, she will stand as a mother, as a hen that covers her children. You are her first child. Arrogant man! You are her first child. Listen to a woman that loves you. They can never lead you wrong.”